When they want something, they buy it without regard to what it costs or how they will pay for it 6.They tend to be tight-lipped about their financial situation.Their ability to lure women in with their charm and charisma adds to the difficulty of spotting the early-warning signs.
But believe me when I tell you it’s like walking through a minefield, and in the best-case scenario, you’ll have more of a sidekick than an actual partner in life. A little is fine and perfectly normal, but you should be able to tell when she’s moving into bunny-boiler territory.
People who are in love support each other through thick and thin—through good and bad financial times.
Before you decide that he or she is the right person to marry, you need to take a serious look at how they view financial goals, choices and commitments. In fact, you disagree about almost all financial goals, choices, and commitments. When you quiz them about their personal budget, it’s clear they don’t have one. They blame other people, the high unemployment rate or other circumstances beyond their control for this lack of employment.
You think they're giving the middle finger to societal norms because they march to the beat of their own drum.
You assume that they're a free bird and that their immaturity is really them just having a good time.